Ladies??? i got a question for u ?

ladies, do u like a man who seems in control of himself? do u find a guy attractive if he shows any insecurity while getting to know him? i realized that in order to attract women you have to draw them towards you because the guys who relentlessly chase seem to never get anywhere. ladies, do u like a guy whos a little y but at the same time funny? do u like it when you are dating a guy and he makes u feel safe when your out in public, by taking charge of what needs to be done, introducing you to people holding your had etc?