Please help me out, how to find myself?

Not in the literal term. I have been doing a lot of thinking lately. I realized that I am a follower. I am also a people pleaser. I fall under the influence, (not with drugs) but with other stuff, like when my friends want me to do something, I do it. I really need to find my independence. Can someone please give me advice on how to be confident in myself and trust myself more?