I'm Sick of fighting the Democrats why?

I am so happy to see this happening. I am a democrat. I think most democrats would agree that the things we are accused of are not even true but are put out by people who want to keep us bickering. I think if instead of some republicans calling us sociolist if they would instead say "are you a dem. & a sociolist?" please explain why you are or why this is not at all true....I have tried to understand for since feb. but when I would get responses from reps. I would get things back that were easily proven to be rumers at snopes.com or even factcheck.org which is owned by Annerburg who also supported McCain....so what can I do to help the republicans? Of course, what I am saying here is the truth has to be separated from the myths first of all but what can we the dems do to help those that like you who want our country & our world to get along?